FAQ on Hindu Funerals
by Vikas Kamat
First Online: March 13, 2002
Page Last Updated: November 16, 2024
Warning: While compiling this FAQ, I have sought the help of learned scholars of Hinduism, and I have tried to make sense of some of the customs. Although ordained, I am not a priest. Further, I am a non-believer in Hindu rituals, so follow these at your own risk.
| Hindus bury or cremate? |  |
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Burials are mentioned in the Rigveda, but we see that at the end of the
Vedic period, only cremation is in practice.
Some communities bury their dead. Further, infants are buried instead of
being cremated. | |
| Why don't the Hindus erect tombs? | |
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Perhaps the idea is to leave the earth just as one arrives on it (hence
the body is cremated in nude), and to have no attachments upon one's departure.
However, tombs are erected for the saints who are said to acquire divinity during
their lifetime. Their funeral is conducted even when they are alive (symbolic of
their attaining heaven), and upon their death, a Samadhi (or a tomb) is erected. | |
| Aren't the hero-stones tombs? Isn't Rajghat a tomb? | |
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Hero-stones (a.k.a. Veeragals) are not tombs. They are memorials. Rajghat is Gandhi's memorial. There are no body parts buried under the memorials. That said, there are indeed some cults (like Veerashaivas) and tribes that bury their dead, but they do not erect a tomb. See: Hero-stones of India -- The Mahasati and other hero-stones provide time-capsules of ancient India. | |
| Do they really use cow dung and cow urine during the funeral rites? | |
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Yes. Like everything else in Hinduism, its use is only symbolic (to sanitize).
You might use soap for the same purpose. | |
| Is it really important to follow these rituals? | |
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It is really up to you. The word for Hindu funeral Shräddha is derived
from the Sanskrit word Shruddhä, which means religious duty or devotion.
It is said that as long as one performs the last rites with a deep sense of
dedication, the rituals themselves become unimportant. | |
| Is it true that Hinduism prohibits mutilation of the corpse? | |
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Upon my father's sudden death, my mother donated his eyes (it is allowed by
Indian law), which were immediately grafted on to two different blind persons.
While this decision resulted deformation of the corpse, I have no doubt that my
father's journey to heaven was only hastened by this noble gesture.
There are some cults in India that feed the corpse to the vultures. The idea
that one can be useful even in death is a great concept, although it might be
painful for the family members to see the body torn apart into pieces. | |
| My Hindu relative/friend passed away. I'm not a Hindu. How do I express support without offending? | |
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Support in any form (usually messages, letters, or visitations) are recommended.
You can offer help with food, and errands.
Some things to say:
Avoid:
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External Links:
- FAQ on Hindu Last Rites provided by the Hindu Endowment Board of Singapore (cached copy)
